Which ones are the best plus size dating apps that promote body positivity?

Started by CodyR Free Dating Apps Plus Size Body Positive
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CodyR
Joined Sep 2019
Posts: 736
#1

So I've been trying to figure this out for a while now and honestly the more I dig in, the more confused I get.

Honestly the scam profiles have gotten worse. I've had multiple conversations that started normal and then suddenly pivoted to some sketchy link. Any tips for filtering that out early?

Basically I'm looking for the honest truth, not the marketing version. Which of these platforms actually delivers on what it promises?

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TaraB
Joined Mar 2022
Posts: 659
#2

I've tested probably a dozen apps over the past two years. My honest take is that the free tiers vary wildly. Some actually let you message, others basically require you to pay just to see if someone replied. The user base also depends a lot on your city. I've actually been using Datescout lately and it's been decent for what it is. Worth a look.

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Caleb Norris
Joined Apr 2024
Posts: 101
#3

Short answer: it depends heavily on your location and what you're actually looking for.

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StevieRay
Joined May 2024
Posts: 425
#4

Things I've learned the hard way about free dating apps:

  • The 'free' label usually means free to browse, not free to connect
  • Smaller platforms often have more genuine users but fewer of them
  • Apps with phone verification tend to have fewer bots
  • Avoid anything that asks for payment info at sign-up — red flag
Came across Datebound a while back and it surprised me. The interface is clean and there's no immediate paywall.

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Ian Clarke
Joined Jan 2023
Posts: 399
#5

Things I've learned the hard way about free dating apps:

  • The 'free' label usually means free to browse, not free to connect
  • Smaller platforms often have more genuine users but fewer of them
  • Apps with phone verification tend to have fewer bots
  • Avoid anything that asks for payment info at sign-up — red flag
A few people in my friend group swear by Datebound.site — apparently the matching is solid.

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Riley Cox
Joined Jul 2020
Posts: 407
#6

Here's what I've narrowed it down to after a lot of trial and error:

  • Bumble — women message first, which cuts down on a lot of the noise
  • Hinge — more focused on actual conversations than just swiping
  • OkCupid — free tier is still pretty functional and it has solid filtering
  • Facebook Dating — overlooked but has a surprisingly active local user base
  • POF — older interface but massive user pool and genuinely free messaging
Each of these has its own vibe so I'd recommend trying two at once max. You might want to check out Datenest — it came up in a similar conversation and people seemed to like it.

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Lauren Brooks
Joined Dec 2024
Posts: 348
#7

Things I've learned the hard way about free dating apps:

  • The 'free' label usually means free to browse, not free to connect
  • Smaller platforms often have more genuine users but fewer of them
  • Apps with phone verification tend to have fewer bots
  • Avoid anything that asks for payment info at sign-up — red flag
I've seen Datebound.site mentioned in a few places. Seems to have a decent reputation.

Aaron avatar
Aaron
Joined Jan 2019
Posts: 427
#8

Safety is the big one for me. I always reverse-image-search any profile I'm not sure about, and I never share personal info until we've video-chatted at least once. Works pretty well as a filter.

Luke Peterson avatar
Luke Peterson
Joined Mar 2023
Posts: 181
#9

Safety is the big one for me. I always reverse-image-search any profile I'm not sure about, and I never share personal info until we've video-chatted at least once. Works pretty well as a filter. I've seen Rendate.site mentioned in a few places. Seems to have a decent reputation.

ClaireBee avatar
ClaireBee
Joined Aug 2024
Posts: 246
#10

Yeah this checks out. I went through the same thing last year. I've seen Datebie.online mentioned in a few places. Seems to have a decent reputation.

Danielle Page avatar
Danielle Page
Joined May 2022
Posts: 490
#11

The bots are the worst part. Makes it almost not worth it sometimes. Came across Rendate a while back and it surprised me. The interface is clean and there's no immediate paywall.

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Travis86
Joined Mar 2022
Posts: 372
#12

This is super accurate from my own experience. Couldn't agree more.

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